Where does it go?

Where does time go?  If you stop and think about every second that is ticking past non-stop, panic can easily set in. Where’s the pause button? The rewind? wait, can I have that second back? I want a do – over, wait I wasn’t ready! Hey wait, STOP! But alas there is no way to stop time, or even slow it down for that matter.
     I got a wake up call this morning on just how fast time has flown. My first born child learned how to shave for the first time. There are moment in a parent’s life where your not sure if you want to burst with pride or bust out in tears. Sometimes you do both. All the while you try to hold the camera still to capture the moment.

 

Step 1. apply shaving cream

 

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Step Two: Learn the workings and rules of the razor as Daddy demonstrates

 

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Step three: take the reigns and pray for no blood

 

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Step four: the touch up

 

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Aren’t daddy’s great. This one sure is.

 

I can’t be old enough to have a shaving teenager thats almost taller than me. I just can’t be. Would sombody please tell me where this litte baby has gone?

 

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Sick but living

This Strep has been kicking my butt. But I have been resisting as best as I can to being sick. but, Apparently I have been overdoing it in the physical sense . So today when I went out, I got to ride in style, in one of these…

 

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I could get use to that! I am thankful I don’t have to though. But it was nice to use for a day. It’s also fun when you have a mom who will race along  the store with you :)

 

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and a dad who will play referee to start said races,

 

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and will dance in the middle of that very store for no reason at all :)

 

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(this is a cross post from part of my weight loss blog, Thirty, Flirty, and fun to show ya just what your missing out on if your not staying up to date on that one too! ;)

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Good news and Bad news

The bad news is I have Strep :(   a pretty painful case at that. My whole body hurt so bad yesterday. I couldn’t sit still, I couldn’t move around much, it was awful. I would keep breaking down in tears because I hurt so bad. Mark said I looked austistic rocking back and forth constantly. But the pain hurt so much I just couldn’t keep still. I finally got to the doctor last night, did the yucky strep test and sure enough it was positive. I’ll take strep over the flu anyday though. (the flu was the doctors second guess)  But I am well medicated now. The pain isnt’ completely gone, but I can at least sit still now !

The good news is while we were waiting for my doctor’s appointment we got to pick up the table and chairs I wanted for the kitchen! well, techincally I stayed in the car since i was so miserable. But I’m so exited! I’ll let you in on a little secret. In our entire 12 years together, we’ve never owned real dining table chairs! We’ve always have folding card table chairs, because I hated how exspensive they were so I could never bring myself to buy them. And now I have SIX ! a complete matching set for the whole family!! :) And I got an awsome deal for the whole set. I really hate furniture shopping, but when I get exactly what I wanted for a great deal, well that just ROCKS!

To keep track

I’ve created a seperate blog for myself for my weight loss journey. If your ever interested in how I’m doing you can check it out here….   http://thirtyflirtyandfun.wordpress.com/ theres also a link to it on the right hand side under My sites.

 Don’t worry, I’m still going to be using this blog here for my main blogging :)

Here’s to a healthier me

In early December mark decided enough was enough, we were finally going to lose the weight. I told him, ok, But I’m not doing it until AFTER Christmas. Well guess what. It is now officially ”after Christmas” . Gasp.  Tomorrow is our first official day back in the real world. No more vacation, no more holidays,  no more lying around the house eating packages of oreos, chocolate, other various cookies, chips, pies, and other various no-no’s. (umm that was all him, i ate carrots and celery the whooole time. ;) Not buying it huh? siiiiiigh.

     Today we went out and bought reinforcements. We bought a scale, *shudder*,  and healthy foods. I dragged out all of our weight watchers paraphernalia, and mark even fixed my treadmill today ! Yay! (crap but now I have to use it!)

So we stepped on the dreaded scale tonight to log in our starting weight. Umm wow. This is the most either of us has weighed in our entire lives, and it does not feel good! Oddly enough we both have almost the same exact amount of weight we want to lose. Unfortunately that amount is exactly how much our 7 year old daughter currently weighs.  I’m carrying a seven year old on my body!!!!! no wonder i’m so dang tired!  We did the math, and if we loose CONSISTENTLY we should be at or at least near our target goal weight in six months. I can do this for six months! Six months from now is June. I can be in a bathing suit by June! This is very exciting to me.

    Yes I have half heartedly attempted this in the past, but honestly I didn’t want it enough. I didn’t WANT to stop eating the things I was eating. But now, this time its different. This time it means somthing. First of all this year I turn the big THREE – OH . Yup I am going to be thirty. And I do not want to enter anouther decade being fat and unhealthy. Even more important,  is this past year I’ve been having problems with my heart, and its super scary stuff. My doctor told me she was worried about my heart FOUR YEARS AGO. I’ve steadily gained since then. I want to live. I want to stay on this planet with my family. I want to be a healthy mom my kids can be PROUD of. I want my kids to stay healthy. I WANT THIS!

It really helps that Mark is in on this too. We will have each other for support, and will eat the same meals when we are together. That will make things easier on both of us. I am going to exercise at LEAST three times a week. I’ve always scoffed at this, saying thats not enough, but then I push myself and quit. I’m not going to set myself up for failure this time! Every little bit helps, and if I work out more than three times, GREAT! If not, I have not failed myself. I’ve stuck to my goal. I have to remember I am a very busy mom and wife and student and set realistic goals. Baby steps!  Now that my treadmill is fixed I have no excuses!

So here we go, joining the other 3 billion people who “resolve” to lose weight for the new year!

Are you sure its only January?

Today is January 3rd, 2009 (happy new year!) It was an exact 81 degrees today. 81 DEGREES IN JANUARY?!?! Thats obscene, even for Texas! Guess what? tomorrow is going to be 46 degrees. Now theres texas for you, high one day, cold the next. Its a miracle we aren’t all sick from the varying temperatures. The whole winter season has been up down up down like this.

The unseasonably warm weather has caused me to go into an early “spring cleaning/redecorating” mode. I am wanting to PURGE PURGE PURGE, and am looking around at what I can change, add, or fix. So first off on my list is to purchase some much needed furniture.

  On my list to purchase are: 

 

1. A kitchen island  – I have finally picked out exactly what I want, and mark is actually going to build it this month!  I couldn’t believe how overly atrociously priced islands are! Lucky for me I have a hubby who not only likes to wood work but he’s pretty darn good at it to boot! :) So I picked the style that I want, and he’s going to make it to match my kitchen so its a win/win, cheaper and matching! :)

 

2. New kitchen table and SIX MATCHING chairs – Its out with the old on this one. Since ours was old anyway, so we tiled the top of ours as an experiment, and I do NOT like it. All the dishes clang and stuff gets stuck in the grout, yuck! I’m really glad we tried it though because my original island was supposed to be tiled, so I’m glad we tested it first! As for our chairs, I’m getting REALLY tired of the black folding card table chairs! lol. I could never bring myself to pay such huge mounts of money PER CHAIR, so I never did. And man are those black chairs UUUUUGLY!  So I am going to buy a complete table and chair Set, so I can finally say buh – bye to those hiddeous things!

 

3. A Sofa Bed (and maybe a loveseat) for the game room – It’s time to get into action on decorating the upstairs. Give three children a huge empty room with a pool table, and watch out! Thats all I’m gonna say about that! lol. I’d like to turn it into a nice comfortable hang out for the kids, as we have ment to for the last two years.

 

4. A fish tank for the living room. Let me tell you a little story….Once upon a time we lived in Colorado. We had a huge fish tank that was filled with hand picked rocks from the mountains that we had climbed. In said tank were many gorgeous and some even exspensive fish. It brought us much joy. Then we decided to move to Florida. We left almost everything we owned behind, as we only had the back of a truck and the inside of a second vehicle to fill up with belongings. But you can be sure that our fish tank was one of the few items we actually DID take! We drained it halfway so that we could transport it, and Fish and all, we packed it into the back of our vehicle and drove cross country. The fish made the trip quite well (they fared better than we did! lol) We stayed with my grandparents for a month before we found a house, so the fish tank lived in a closet, (it was too big for their house) where it remained half full, but was filtered constantly and the fish were kept happy. Once we found a house we moved the fish tank in, and proceeded to follow the correct process declorinating and adding water  to finally fill it back up. And in about three miniutes time all of our beloved fish started having seizures. We immediatly called a fish store to see what went wrong. It was then that they informed us that Florida water had somthing extra in it. I can not recall what it is now but it had too much of some chemical that our fish could not handle nor were used to . So I flew in my car and drove thirty min to the closesest fish store to get the required solution to fix the waters problem. Of course it was also a thirty min. trip back, and by then all of our beloved fish were belly up. We were very upset. To have gone to all that trouble to keep our dear fish and for them to die in the home streatch.

Fast forward a few months . The tank had sat empty while we licked our wounds, and mark decided that he was going to surprise me  for Mothers day by finally converting our fish tank into a salt water tank. Somthing we had always wanted to do. It was a wonderful surprise. He had worked diligently and sneakily (is that a word?) to get it all set up. Well Apparently you have to let a salt water tank cycle for at least a month before you can really put fish in it. (YES We waited!) There are some little fishys that you start off with to help build the right kind of bacteria’s. So we enjoyed our tiny bacteria fishys for a whole month, while getting all excited about picking out our first ever real salt water fish. And then, ……….we moved. Again.   Right when it was time to buy gorgeous salt water fish. So we returned our little pretty little bacteria fishy’s and salt water back to the store. :(    Since then the tank made several more moves, but we never did fill it up again, as we knew we would have to wait until we were in a more permanant place before we were going to try that again. Two moves ago the tank finally cracked.

Now that we have finally purchased a house and are planning on spending many a years here, we would like to once again have fish.  Wish us luck! lol (ok so it wasn’t exactly a little story :)

 

5. A couch for the living room – This isn’t high on my priority list, as our couch is still very nice, and its comfortable, unless you want to lay down. It has two recliners in the ends, and we are starting to feel the metal bars between the cushions when we lay down. So it will have to go in the near future I suppose. Not looking forward to picking out a new one though. I really like ours! But mark would like a wider one where we can snuggle better , cause ya know, we’re wider now too! *snicker*

 6. Another Recliner – This one can wait too, I would like to have a recliner for me, as mark’s is sooo comfortable, but right now we have Marks’ Grandmothers’ rocking chair where mine would go, so I am in no rush. I would like to have one 1 day,  and put the rocker in my bedroom, but its not top priority .

 

Things I want to accomplish:

1. Paint the remaining accent wall in the living room. – I can’t believe its been almost two years and I havent’ even picked a dang color for it. Time to bust a move

2. Paint my office/studio – the color choice is easy on this one, but I’m not looking forward to moving all of my office furniture to get it done.

3. Paint and decorate the Game room - This one is going to take some time to figure out what exactly we want to do to it. I will most likely buy the furniture first and work from there.

4.  Hang family photos – ok now this is an embarrasing one. A studying photographer admitting that she barely has any photos of her family hanging in her own home. Definitly not good for business!

5. Paint the pantry – Not really looking forward to this so its probably going to be last on my list to do, but it would be nice to have it done

6. Finish Kids Bedrooms – I still need to finish painting Christians room, poor kid has had only two painted walls for over a year now, and Seths bunk-bed-fort still needs to be built. This is where my hubby’s skills come in again

crap theres an awful lot of painting left to be done!

 

And after all that it will be spring I am assuming, and I plan on working on the backyard. My main goal for the backyard will be to finally :

1. start my garden

So there are my Spring cleaning / resolutions(?)   Here’s hoping I actually get it all accomplished before anouther two years have passed! :)

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